You can be a winner even when circumstances seem to say otherwise. Once you master these basic principles, nothing can stand in your way. Let’s put on our alchemy suits and get ready to navigate life like a boss with these tips that will help you change the world you see around you.
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The first thing is to let the energy flow through you as you release attachment to the outcome of the situations you are dealing with.
What the heck does that mean? What it means is that we can control a lot of things in life, but sometimes fate comes knocking. It is important to be able to deal with the energy that comes your way in a manner that doesn’t overtake you. You don’t have to be attached to getting a certain outcome when you know that whatever outcome happens it’s for your highest good.
See yourself as a winner. If you don’t get what you expected, take what you’ve gotten and turn it into something beautiful. Accept no losses, only lessons.
Oh, you’ve encountered some negative energy that you don’t want to deal with – okay, take that energy and use it as fuel to accomplish something productive.
I have an oracle/affirmation deck coming out soon. That came from someone pissing me off. I was so angry that I decided to do something extremely productive. I released the anger, opened up a Word doc, and immediately started writing out ideas. I got into the zone. I used that alchemy woo. By the end of the day, I was basically done with the deck in terms of what the message of each card should be.
Here’s another example. Let’s say someone you are in love with, isn’t on the same page as you in that regard – okay, be happy that you learned now instead of later, and that you didn’t waste your time. So how can you focus on attracting a situation that you actually want to be in?
You didn’t get the job or career opportunity you wanted…okay, well it wasn’t in alignment for you so that’s great that you didn’t get yourself in the wrong situation. So how can you transmute that energy of disappointment into an energy where you are creating your own opportunities?
Work with what you have to see yourself as a winner.
When things don’t go your way, feel your feelings. But don’t hold on to them. The point isn’t to bury your hurt feelings so that they manifest as some other issue, the point is to let the energy flow in a way that comes back to benefit you.
The next key is confidence. You really have to believe in yourself.
If you don’t believe in yourself, then you are handing yourself a disadvantage. When you believe in yourself, you start to make things happen. You no longer look at obstacles as obstacles but you see them as opportunities to overcome. Instead of saying “I can’t” you move into a mind mode that says, “how can I?”
Instead of telling yourself, “I can’t afford this”, you say, “how can I afford this?” Instead of saying, “I can’t find a good relationship partner” you say, “how can I attract the love I deserve and desire?” Instead of saying “I can’t deal with all this stress” you move into a space where you are thinking “how can I make my life less stressful?”
When you change your perspective, you change your reality. Believe in yourself and your ability to do this. No one is going to change your life for you, and you don’t need them to. You’ve got this.
Finally, you have to realize that now is the time to expand beyond what you think is possible.
Most people set the bar too low and then they succeed. Try something different. Set goals that are so amazing that they seem unbelievable to you. Dream your biggest dream, and then take it a little further. Make that “ridiculous” dream your goal. Then get to work making it happen. Bit by bit, piece by piece you can live an amazing life.
What’s the difference between you and someone who is living the life you want to live? You can start talking about obstacles and all of that, or you can recognize that they had the confidence to put in the work to make it happen, and now it’s your turn to do the same.
The only limits are the ones you are placing on yourself. You are the one who has put yourself in a box. In fact, the box doesn’t even exist but your mind has made it so, therefore you stay confined. Break out of the box, let go of your fears, and dare to expand beyond what you think is possible. Do you know how far you can be a year from now if you have the confidence to take the first step today?
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