“When will I be happy and find my soulmate” is one of the most common questions that people ask me in readings. I get this question almost daily. I don’t really like it because most people ask with the expectation of getting a romantic fairy tale answer, but that’s not the type of answer you are going to get from me. You are going to get an answer infused with some knowledge before I go into the reading. And I’m going to end the reading with some soul growth lessons too.
I always tell people you have to know the style of the reader you are going to. For example, I don’t read tarot, I read playing cards , oracles, and runes. Every reader is not the same. I’m about soul level growth, activating human potential, and manifesting the results we seek.
Back to the question at hand, “When will I be happy and find my soulmate…”
First of all, we all have multiple soulmates so you’ve already met your “soulmate”. Your family, your friends, the random person who helped you when they didn’t have to…. soulmates are all around you and most of them are not romantic partners.
What you are really asking is when will you meet your life partner, and that answer really depends on your frequency and your choices. Why try to limit yourself when we are in a realm that’s limitless? What if you are meant to have multiple life partners? What if you are meant to have a long-term relationship that is needed in order to get ready for your long-term life partner? What if you need to focus on another area in your life first, before you are ready to attract what you seek?
I don’t like “when” questions because that immediately puts too many limitations in place. When = time. Time = Saturn. Saturn = restrictions and limitations.
Instead of asking when, how about asking what you can do in order to increase the chances of getting a certain result.
Secondly, you will be happy when you decide to be happy. That has nothing to do with romance partners. Being happy is not a place we arrive at. It’s a choice we make.
If we are unhappy then we have to get to the root of why, not just try to cover it up by leaning on someone else. What happens if the person decides not to be your “happiness” anymore? Are you going to fall into a pit of despair?
A partner should be an addition to your life, an enhancement. It’s not wise to look at someone else as the entire foundation that your mental and emotional health is standing on.
You can have the happiness you seek because it’s already right there inside of you.
You may have to clear out some stagnant energy in order to dig it out, but it’s there. Once you know it’s there, that gives you the opportunity to shift your perspective. Once you shift your perspective, you shift your life.
I am available for personal readings if you are ready to get some insight into your love life or potential compatibility. We can talk about love, you just have to know that I’m going to come at it from the perspective of empowering you.